It never ceases to amaze me how certain people don’t understand how their words affect people. If you care about people isn’t it nice for you to actually care about their feelings? (Especially when they are supposedly a “close” friend) I am not sure if it is because I work in the therapy field or if because I was raised by parents who were not afraid to be open with their feelings.
I kind of just want to know what is so scary about embracing your feelings. Do people really need to protect themselves to the point where they are actually hurting other, making them feel like cow dung? I know that being open, 100% honest it not the easiest but it is not the hardest thing either, it will not be the end of the world. If more people tried it the world might actually be a happier place, people might share more love and end up in better relationships!
Anyway, tonight I decided I am not going to all others to dictate the way I feel. I am not going to alter my mood because people are afraid of their feelings. I have my feelings, I know and understand them and ok with that! However, my decision is not to be second best to someone’s lack of understanding (or acceptance) of their feelings. Like a good friend said to me this evening, I’m not gonna let any one piss in my papaya!
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